the shoe, the car or kobe???

Watch this jump...its sick! not sure if it real though...



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I dont love you anymore...

So what goes through your mind when you read that title? what is your initial feeling?? why?? did it every happen to you or did you ever deliver to anyone?...you may be sitting in your cute panties or boxer brief while reading this but all jokes apart...more than my previous line being a joke..i would still bring your attention back to the title - is there a shit called love????? sue me...but i have my definition of "shit" It is basically anything that i find hard to explain - its a perfect substitute or an synonym of all the words in my world of dictionary that slip from webster or oxford into this blog...

so what drives me to write these random thoughts, what makes me go just berserk? and find it so interesting to type these content on to machine that can makes it presentation to the world? why has this become a medium to world?? is it for those who have the ambition to reach out to a larger audience, want recoginition or are we just lazy to write our notes in beautiful paper that had it own special smell...old times when you write a letter to the ones that you love...its originality, the ink, the slant of handwriting and feeling of crumbling n throwin 'em away when you cant get your writing right...isnt that all original? its that all true??

Most of ppl, they go their whole life and they never really find someone they love...they say they do because they are stars of their own little romantic comedy..but what?? well they are all full of shit..cos you cannot see it in front of you?? cos you are looking too hard? looking too far away?? and by the time you make your move...we were all already kicked in the ass by karma....so does the punishment fit the crime and hence i dont love you anymore kicks back at you!!!

unfortunately there is no song to download for this random thought...cos am treasuring the song that playing in the background! interesting? maybe not.

sexy ad - extended stay and they are proud to let you do it!

This an atrocious and splendid ad...its got great music so doesnt make it quirkie...enjoy it while you can...

You Can't Always Get What You Want - by Rolling Stones

This is what kid told her dad when he couldnt keep up to his word...the kid forgave the dad and accepted that it would end being that though he mean to let her down, but he did...so this what she said "it is all well and good to talk about happy endings but if a person cant deliver, if he keeps screwing up, all eventually, i guess he just he just kindda have to say "fuck you" or words to that effect."
she gives her dad the dollar and asks her father to keep the change - this is something dad used to do for any swearing that his kid would do...
Sometimes, we fall trap to our childern and reasons maybe be many...and as mortals we have our flaws and there comes a time if we want to ignore of our flaws, have less regard to our priorities and family and that we are that messed up that we could hardly keep up to the smallest thing that we were supposed...so what does that makes us? is this how people grow apart...is this how silence weakens the bridges between relationship...at what point of time and life would you turn back to make a change? to lower yourself, accept your flaws and yet have the courage to grow to new person.....

Download:
You Can't Always Get What You Want
The Rolling Stones

Coldplay -- Viva la Vida (MUSIC VIDEO)

Another personal fav...this my trip song man...i can relate to LA with this song...memories fostering as this music plays in the background...thanks to my bulgarian friend who got me to listen to this...this song is not an instant hit but an aquired liking and then it evolves to be big hit.. i like...listen to this with your decibles up...its a let-go-free song...very free spirited...take a beer, turn up the volume and press play...u'll notice that your feet are automatically tapping and ur head noding and next minutes you are just dancing around this song...i wouldnt feel guilty if this was played on repeat mode too...
Coldplay -- Viva la Vida (MUSIC VIDEO)

Gavin Rossdale - Love Remains The Same

I know the last time i posted something was on Aug 27th...4 months from my date of my birthday was my last post...and now i cant find the time...reason..lost in work..my trip has consumed me and barely time for any quality music listening or posting...In meantime, i was listening to some adult contemporary...and i like this track, so i would like to share it here...its nice...nice lyrics too...
Gavin Rossdale - Love Remains The Same

Holiday?

Is it ok that i be on holiday for a month? may not upload music?? leave your comments folks!

Cheers!
Frostednut

Definitely,maybe

This is right after the movie...."Definitely, Maybe" - how hard is it to confess?? to come out of your skin that you are hiding beneath and behind...i realized that am a love fool. and as i said it out, i was told i was not so emotional but today while i write this note, i know i am emotional and have been hurt with scars so deep that make me shy away from my real feelings....so does time heal? yes! it does, cos today am writing this to mean that i've begun to shed those fears away and reconcile with "myself"...well there is no moral of this story nor a strong conclusion but a feeling expressed...a calm outburst...

And definitely, maybe, a week from now i could be in Los Angeles..then begins my time of loneliness as i would staying away from the ones i love.

Bar Etiquette - how to indulge!

Etiquette gets a bad rap when it’s misinterpreted as a set of behavioral rules. In reality, there are no real “rules” of etiquette -- breaking them won’t put you in the penalty box or behind bars. Etiquette applies to all social situations, and the bar is no different.

before the bar----------------------

In order to make sure the group is pleased with the bar choice, the host should always give two venue options: the first being the favored choice, while the second serves as a backup.The organizer is also responsible for getting a table, getting the attention of the server and establishing a designated driver. Additionally, if the group is to run a single tab and needs to keep a credit card with the bar staff, the burden of offering up a card lies with the organizer of the trip.Finally, the host should make plans ahead of time to avoid the disaster of a large, single bill met by multiple credit cards and no cash.

Buying rounds

• With regard to buying rounds, etiquette dictates the following:
  Discuss this practice before reaching the bar and decide amongst your party whether or not the plan is to pay for drinks by the round. It is poor manners to initiate buying rounds at the bar because it obligates people without their consent, and can put someone in a tight situation if they’re suddenly called upon to buy a round when they don’t want to or can’t afford to.


• When buying rounds, it is expected that all the men will drink whatever liquor is bought for that round, but women should be consulted as to whether or not they would like to order something else. Obviously right!! :) else you would end up disappointing and your sweet nothings will not work out :)

Buying her a drink

There is a long-standing misconception that men should -- or are expected to -- pay for a woman’s entire expenses at a bar, from cover charges to appetizers and drinks.

This old tradition has conventional roots: There was a time when women in general were not part of the workforce and had no real income. Well, today they are, and they have their own money.

Granted, when you are at a bar with a woman, you should try to pay for the first drink. However, insisting on paying for a woman can be very poor etiquette; while it may seem like you’re doing a good deed, the act can make women feel uncomfortable as they may wonder if you think you’re “owed” something. Making anybody feel uncomfortable for any reason is the absolute antithesis to etiquette. Most women won’t order something expensive and extravagant, but nowhere in the offer itself is there a price limit

Finally, etiquette expert Peter Post suggests you watch the bartender make her drink so that he or someone else does not slip anything into the drink -- you should do this for her protection and for your own.

Know your limits

People go to bars to have a good time and each person at a bar deserves to have a reasonable expectation that everyone else will not get out of hand. Yet, alcohol clouds judgment and can turn minor situations into volatile ones. The drunker people get, the more often things such as fights and unwanted passes at women occur -- both cases of extremely poor bar etiquette.In short, know and abide by your own limits, and if you’re the host for the evening, you should keep watch on the individuals in your party as well.

The bill

As the evening wears on and the customers thin out, bar staff are typically sent home. Consequently, your waiter / waitress may have dropped off your bill and can’t go home until you’ve paid it. If it’s late, be prompt about paying your bill or closing out your tab.

Closing up

While it’s within the rules of etiquette to be the last patrons and “close the place,” it is rude to stay beyond closing hours. Asking the staff whether or not they mind if you stay is equally rude because they’re likely to give you the answer you want to hear. Etiquette functions such that your good time should never be at the expense of another.

Going home

At the end of the night, the host bears one final responsibility: To see to it that all the women in the party have been seen off safely, whether into cabs or to their cars.

Resources:

Post, Peter. Essential Manners for Men. Collins, 2003.

Bridges, John. How to Be a Gentleman. Thomas Nelson, 2001.

www.leisuresuit.net

A Lake Full of Vodka

A LAKE has been transformed from freshwater to 30 per cent vodka after a leak from a nearby distillery.
Farmers and workers from Wielkopolska in Poland rushed to fill their boots with the brew - three times the strength of wine. A 71-year-old woman, who lives near Lake Bracholinskie, said: "If God doesn't help, everyone will be a drunkard with only a hole where the lake was."

however this is not a recent development..happened to published in 2006...now my comment- so no smoking by lake or no smoking on the water?! lol....ponder on!

Lake of vodka? Sounds like a great place for a BYOM(bring your own mix) party!

From: Mirror.co.uk

Vodka at its best???

This is something i stumbled upon and wanted to share it here...well with me being a vodka gulper, i also found it useful for myself for anytime i needed a ready reckoner on vodka capabilities....

1. To remove a bandage painlessly, saturate the bandage with vodka. The Solvent dissolves adhesive.

2. To clean the caulking around bathtubs and showers, fill a Trigger-spray bottle with vodka, spray the caulking, let set five Minutes and wash clean. The alcohol in the vodka kills mold and mildew.

3. To clean your eyeglasses, simply wipe the lenses with a soft, clean cloth dampened with vodka. The alcohol in the vodka cleans the glass and kills germs.

4. Prolong the life of razors by filling a cup with vodka and letting Your safety razor blade soak in the alcohol after shaving. The vodka disinfectsthe blade and prevents rusting.

5. Spray vodka on vomit stains, scrub with a brush, and then blot dry.

6 Using a cotton ball, apply vodka to your face as an astringent to cleanse the skin and tighten pores.

7. Add a jigger of vodka to a 12-ounce bottle of shampoo. The alcohol cleanses the scalp, removes toxins from hair, and stimulates the growth of healthy hair.

8. Fill a sixteen-ounce trigger-spray bottle and spray bees or wasps to kill them.

9. Pour one-half cup vodka and one-half cup water in a Ziploc freezer bag and freeze for a slushy, refreshable ice pack for aches, pain or black eyes.

10. Fill a clean, used mayonnaise jar with freshly packed lavender flowers, fill the jar with vodka, seal t he lid tightly and set in the Sun for three days. Strain liquid through a coffee filter, then apply the tincture to aches and pains.

11. To relieve a fever, use a washcloth to rub vodka on your chest and back as a liniment.

12. To cure foot odor, wash your feet with vodka.

13. Vodka will disinfect and alleviate a jellyfish sting.

14. Pour vodka over an area affected with poison ivy to remove the Urushiol oil from your skin.

15. Swish a shot of vodka over an aching tooth Allow your gums to absorb some of the alcohol to numb the pain.

so much for now...bet one wouldnt be able to remember if u were sipping vodka and reading this...so sober up!

Memories

Over the last few weeks, there were quite a few "last things that i did", quite a few relapse of memories...time has come today for me to move. Though a happy occasion, yet the disappointment and sadness is in greater quantity - does it say who i am?? Morning i awake to notice that today was the last morning "hard on" in this house...;) thats a nice thing to wake up in the morning.
Well let me break up the suspense or curiosity - no am not dying, no am not losing someone, perhaps..maybe. am leaving my house to move into a new one. A new bigger and better house. At this juncture, many of us would rejoice and be proud but in my case this house has been so dear, thought not a first buy...i bought this house when i could barely sustain myself...so there has definitely been an essence of hardship and dug deep memories. Though not long, staying in house from being alone, to moving in with my mother and then a wife and then a life! Had friends come over so often and indulged in some havoc parties and fights and sex and loneliness too...
Something so dear, something so strong is so hard to let go..
I would like to thank the Lord for blessing me, thank Him for guiding me through... thanks my family for supporting me and my friends - Eric, Zahir and others...yeah my cousins...hella bunch -Shyam, Shammi, Bunny, Sonia, Bonnie, Ronnie, Saly and cutest of all "ryan" for all the fun that we had in this house.

Now what may remain as a memory within this house, can only be taken to the next level of memories within me where ever i go...Cherish is the word i would choose...and a belief that tomorrow is a better place, cos i know....

am glad i wrote, find it very fine that i expressed and able to put here on this blog so that i can come back whenever again and read...and maybe edit it with more thoughts! Thank you world for being there for me!

Lesson learnt - every day, every moment is precious and it matters...but dont be a pussy and sulk...move on - look at the bigger picture!! :)

Favourite Funeral Song

Now this may come as a strange read but with my style being always the kind that makes one ponder, let me throw this one for you to ponder - how far have you gone in your life to plan the things you want??? answer is simple - dont! do not plan but atleast have something that you know is surely yours... so how far have i gone this time??? I have selected my "favorite funeral song", yes that is right...am writing this post as the song is uploading, so that i could share it. Call me crazy...but this crazy enough to be interesting and as you listen to this song, you would undoubtedly agree that i am right.
So this is for you - "Clubbed To Death" <- download it->
and have you decided yours????

This song "Clubbed To Death" has been simply my best ones since the time i heard it in the movie Matrix but after i accidently downloaded this track that was compilation by Rob Dougan’s Furious angel, and now i have found my connection and total completenes...

While i go 6 feet under and begin to push the daisies, i would like you to spend a moment listening to this song...cheers!

Placed the video here, so that you can have direct access to the audio...The music is well orchestrated and beautifully composed.."deep", "melodious" and "controlled"...just like our lives...unless we just let it go the opposites of the abstracts highlighed :)

Luck Coveted..

Well its nearly 2am and i'm sitting here typing this.Something must have compelled me to come here, some drive, some drink? maybe...and yeah remember - " the only thing stopping you, is YOU". Now this phrase is quite something to remember for long time in your life.

So here i'm! not many thoughts that i could be confused about...not blurred to express what running in. So let me indugle you with this thought - "Ever met someone nice to know and feeling is mutual and strong?! and begin to lower your gaurd as you let the smile curve around those corners and you let your artistic mind take control to draw the picture...
Just about the time you could feel good and let the needle scale up your degree of emotion, you realize that it just disappears like the flame into the thin air...wrong metaphor?? but i bet, its the right title!

Ponder on..its not a random thought. Everyone comes across this phase, this moment...

Another Hero in our daily lives

How often do you see something and think, "Someone should do something about that," then keep going?

But on Feb. 17, we're celebrating the example set by Wesley Autrey, the New York subway hero, who saw something that needed to be done and just did it. He saved a life. What can you do?

http://www.gothamist.com/archives/2007/01/05/_subway_rescuer.php